How to save your relationship?

I found this article at Yahoo featured.. Some good one and others are more theory. Probably it is not viable to me.. Remember the point of the fight is to reach a solution, not to win, be right, or make your partner wrong. Don’t try to mind read. Ask instead what he or she is thinking. Don’t bring up all the prior problems that relate to this one. Leave the past in the past; keep this about one recent problem. Solve one thing at a time. Keep the process simple. State the problem, suggest some alternatives, and choose a solution together. Don’t talk too much at once. Keep your statements to two or three sentences. Your partner will not be able to grasp more than that. Give your partner a chance to respond and to suggest options. Practice equality. If something is important enough to one of you, it will inevitably be important to both of you, so honor your partner’s need to solve a problem. Ask and Answer questions directly. Again, keep it as simple...